Wish for the desire which satisfies all your desires
The graveyard is nothing but a desire. If you say I have a handful of desires, and if you say that you have plenty of wishes, that means you are a debt to the graveyard. That means you have to visit this planet again and again. All these desires and dreams are not going to be fulfilled in this life.
One lady sat in front of me, she calls me a father; she came from Tamil Nadu. You don’t think that she is younger than me, she is ten years elder than me. She may have approximately 40 to 45 years. Many devotees call me a father directly; even their husbands also call me a father. She had started saying immediately in spite of the first time meeting. She was saying, Oh my father when you will look at me, I even don’t know her name at that time. I even don’t know from where she has come. I don’t know who is she at that point in time. She told that See my father, “it should happen by tomorrow itself”. She then went away. I don’t know what should happen. See how my child’s introduction was. You should realize here, what a beautiful trust it was. What kind of faith there should be, what kind of diligence there should be, how much intimacy there should be, how much love there should be. I called Sriparamoji and asked what she is saying. He told me that it is none of our business, we will never come in between you and your child, we will not interfere in this matter, do whatever I want. Then again, I asked him to tell me about her; he again told me that it is not at all related to me, please look into that matter. The journey of that Mahashri started at that time. Whatever she asked happened. Her child was in life and death situation. He is the only son; he was on ventilation. He had holes in his heart. The operation was done too late. There was some infection in the heat; he was almost gone. Someone told her to go to Aumaujaya and he may help you. She asked who is Aumaujaya; That devotee said he is a father to me, but I don’t know what he is for me and left. She stated that if he is a father to you, then he is also a father to me. The relation happened in a fraction of a second there itself. She came and sat in front of me and told me and left. She was praying in the hospital. Her husband went to her and told her to look after their child she replied that her father would take care of him and that we should look after him. He was befuddled and asked who this father is. She again replied to him that you sit her father will take care. My father will take care. Our son may live or die. If he dies, then he will become the son of my father. If he lives, then his father’s presence will appear here. You just sit silently. He also came to me and said, “Oh my father”. I thought that today two people came to me calling me father. He also said that your child is praying in the hospital. When she was saying father, I also came to see you; I realized that you are our Father, please look after my son and went away. For love, there will be no boundaries. They went running and started praying there, approximately, it took two days for them to pray.
After two days, their son recovered, and his heart hole was cleared. Ventilation was removed, and they brought him back. When they brought their son, I asked them if they have any desires. She told that she doesn’t have many desires, and then started saying this. I want to build a house, not big wishes I just want to purchase a car, not have many desires, but I want one more child because we are not sure that how long he will survive. And my kids should study well, and they should go to foreign. And they should get good wives. And one more wish I want to build a beautiful garden. Not only that, if you have any chance to see it anytime, please bless us with a Europe trip. We want to travel around. And we should have the right daughters-in-law, and we should have good health. My brother should get a seat. Mother is becoming fat due to thyroid, please heal her. My father’s BP is increasing nowadays; please look after him. And I don’t have any more desires. And finally, my husband should get promoted. Like this, she conveyed her wishes for almost three hours. She told that she doesn’t have any desires and again expressed her dreams. I told her that, you have plenty of hopes and dreams, such huge afflictions and tensions. So many troubles you have to encounter to fulfill them. Whenever you pray for desires, I will get fear. It’s not like fulfilling the wishes. My concern is how many troubles and difficulties you have to face in materializing your wishes. How many counters attacks do you have to face? How much opposition and tension do you have to face? How many sleepless nights do you have to face? How many days do you have to face hunger? How many health problems do you have to face? How many people you will lose and gain? How many wounds you will make? How many times you will cry and weep? How many ways do you have to face chaos? How many times you will miss your track and how many times do you have to commit mistakes? How many ways do you have to face troubles and difficulties? How much do you have to worry about? If you grind yourself in these many ways then finally you get the result in the form of juice. Fulfilling the desire is simple. But I could clearly see the time and journey of hell between the desire you make and when it gets fulfilled. You will pray for desire, but I can imagine the hardship you are going to face. If I tell you all the sufferings, then you will say that I am not there to look about. Unnecessarily arguments start. If I don’t say, you will say that I would have said earlier. You will not listen if I say or don’t say. Only I have to listen because I only have big ears to listen. I have more knowledge so it indicates that I have big ears. I have more consciousness so I have to hear all your desires, you will not listen because you have small ears. Other than desire you cannot listen to anything, you cannot see anything other than your dreams; you cannot see other than your dreams. You don’t know about the other world other than your desire. You don’t even know another person other than your wish. You will see the desire for a shrunken life. You don’t know what kind of challenge it is.
I told my child that you had opened many accounts. To clear all these accounts, the first thing you have to do is you have to build a beautiful graveyard. Think about all your desires later, first, you purchase 2 or 3 acres of land somewhere at a remote place. Name it as King’s graveyard because you are going to stay here eternally. She had the desire to see all the seven wonders of the world and that also seven times. Her husband told her that, it was not enough for us to marry one time. We have to marry at least ten to twenty times. She told me how it is possible to get married this many times. I articulated the intention of her husband that to fulfill your desires you have to take birth these many times. I told her to Just imagine how much he has to work hard to see seven times seven wonders. The problem is that they are not in a financial position to even go to a temple. But, my dear child had those many desires. I asked her is it possible to fulfill all these desires in this life. She said that “I have to fulfill at least one wish, then automatically I will get the confidence that I can achieve my remaining other desires. It’s enough, I don’t bother even if I need to take birth again, but my desires should get fulfilled because God will be there in this world eternally, I don’t have any problem God doesn’t go anywhere. No problem how many times I may take birth because we will meet again and again. There will be a tiny gap between two lives my dear father. Dying and taking birth again, no problem you take care of me, but I have to fulfill my desires”. After a few months only two of her desires got fulfilled, and she again came back a told me. She said that “I don’t want to pray for anything, you take care of everything please, I don’t ask you anything. These two desires are enough in this life. I have built my house, and I joined my son in a convent school, it’s enough, I don’t need anything in my life more than this”. By fulfilling only these two desires, she was tired.
Whenever you pray for any desire, you should understand that you have opened your account in the graveyard, because It will not go that much easier, it’s hard to get rid of it. In your life wish for any desire which fulfills all your desires. Wish for any desire which satisfies all your wishes. Wish for any desire which removes the illiteracy of all your desires. If you experience any of the desires which satisfy all the desires, wish for that. If you acquire knowledge with any desire which wipes out the illiteracy of all your desires, wish for that. If you acquire consciousness with any desire which will remove all the unconsciousness of all desires, which makes you boundless from all relations and gives Moksha and will make you free and independent, wish for such one desire. I say to learn that.
But be aware of the world of desires, that is the graveyard.